Pay your respects and go home.
Grief can make people do irrational things. Adding alcohol and drugs to the mix and you may accidentally set yourself up to be haunted by an evil spirit. If you’re not ready to let a loved one go, raising the dead may seem like a good idea. Remember–what goes into the ground isn’t what comes out of the ground.
Now, if you are just going to the cemetery to hang out with your friends, that’s just an invitation to danger.
Get new friends.
Go Online. Read a book.
Books are sexy.